My boyfriend and I have this love relation since 2 years. I know him very well and his family background, I was loving him before he proposed me.
I never showed my true feeling to him because my love is not of that kind in which trust is not there.
I love him because I care for him.
My mind and soul are for him. I can’t think of any other boy or person other than him.
We love each other but he says he can’t marry me because his marriage is already fixed with someone else by his family members.
But still I have this relation with him because I don’t want to lose him.
What should I do to marry him because I have all the things that he wants and my family members will agree for this marriage because he also has all the qualities of perfect husband for me.
What should I do please tell me?
Please give advice and comment.
September 22nd, 2008 at 3:48 am
Im in the same situation, but since years. I spent the best days of my life with a man who will leave me next month because he will marry his cousin.
I had 2 find out the truth the hard way.. If he loves u, he will leave her & he will marry u.
However much he tells u that he loves u, its not true.. he loves u now.. but he doesnt want u in his future.
He might say that he is forced 2 marry, but he can easily break up the arrangement with his family. If he is a man, he will tell his family. Because if he is mature enough 2 get married, he is mature enough 2 tell his family who he wants 2 marry.
So, the truth is, this is his choice also, not only his family.. But it doesnt mean he doesnt love u & most probably he will regret his arranged marriage, but it will b 2 late because inshallah u will get over him soon & find better.. inshallah 4 me also
September 23rd, 2008 at 11:06 pm
I had the same situation. It doesn’t work, trust me. He will still get married to the girl and not to you. Your relationship may continue after he’s married and it’s just going to get even more messy.
Been there, done that. Be brave, leave him and time will heal the pain.