I have been relation for two years and things have gone steadily downhill. I thought she is my soul mate yet now we cant seem to agree on anything important. When we were not engaged, I though we agreed on everything. Now, even we dont agree upon day and night.
Our biggest fights seem to be about money. she was raised in a home where money was seen as a way to live better. I grew up in a poorer home where MY family scrimped and saved to provide their children with a relatively good life.
Please help………….
August 29th, 2008 at 11:40 am
It is because of the difference in status of both of you.And my dear friend don’t wait for everything to go smooth after sometime ,you need to talk and express so much so that you both can understand each other feelings,beliefs,goals,emotions etc..
August 30th, 2008 at 7:01 pm
You had written that your biggest cause for fighting is money. Are you sure about it? Might be it can your perception and she doesn’t want money and she might be needing you which you r relatingyou with money. I have read your all post and just want you to ask a very simple question to you that do there is always a fight from one side and only a single partner is responsible for it.I just want to suggest you that if your love is true, money is not the cause there so try to find out the real cause and don’t mislead it with money such that you remain with money thought and things get more worse. So try to find out the real cause b’coz from your post one thing is sure that your love is true.
August 30th, 2008 at 11:40 pm
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